For Ladies Only Glimpse

Now look, I don't know how many of you got smirks on your face wondering about my title. By the time you get done reading this post I'll bet they will turn into full-fledged, knowing smiles and/or giggles. How can I be confident to make such a claim? Well, that's what's happened every time I've shared it with ladies around here, i.e. Bible Study, Moms Retreat. Read on and enjoy.

I was struggling one day with an appointment that I figured was going to be pretty difficult. I wanted to be sure that I approached it in ways that would glorify my Father. Lately I've been seeking the Lord to build His Word into me in such a way that it will be the first thing I consider in any situation. He's been very gracious in answering that request even for a mature adult such as myself. [You can read that, "an old bird like me," if you like.] So in preparation I was led to the passage that begins at Colossians 3:12.

I was sharing the excellent advice offered in these verses with a friend. She encouraged me to consider reading through the passage even as I got dressed the morning of my appointment. She suggested that I actually put on the attributes mentioned as I was putting on my clothes. The idea was intriguing to me. It reminded me of the Ephesians 6 passage that directs God's people to stand firm and put on the armor of God. So the next morning I opened my Bible to Colossians 3 and laid it out on the bed along with all my clothes.

12a Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, . . .
I stopped to soak in those basic truths. Before the directions to get dressed, God begins by telling me who I am. He chose me to be His own, not because of the way I look or for anything I've done, not even because I love and trust Him as I seek to follow His precepts. He chose me before the foundation of the world because HE loves ME. As a matter of fact, I only love Him because He first loved me. 1 John 4:19 Not only am I chosen, but God calls me holy and reminds me that I am dearly loved. These truths are based on who He is and what He has done. Hallelujah, it has nothing to do with me. I've been chosen and made holy by Jesus Christ who is the same yesterday, and today and forever. Hebrews 13:8 I am this chosen, holy, dearly-loved person that is being addressed and directed in a special way. I need to pay attention.

12b clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
Okay, God is telling me to put on compassion. Once again I'm reminded of the belt, breastplate, helmet, etc. from Ephesians. The verse does say to clothe myself so which of these articles of clothing would best represent compassion? To put on compassion means to choose to take in the other person's position, to think about what they might be thinking or how they might be feeling. It would mean that I would need to really consider the inner, private part of the other person's life. My most private parts are covered up by my underpants so I'm going to put them on as a symbol of the compassion I'm asking the Lord to give me. I prayed as I slipped on my underpants that the Lord would help me see and understand the other person's position from His viewpoint. Oh yes, Lord I'm beginning to see the wisdom of this process.

Next God tells me to put on kindness. What article of clothing would illustrate kindness? To put on kindness means to choose to have a positive, outgoing attitude of service. It would mean that I would need to be uplifting and perky, not down in the mouth and negative. The article of clothing that I find most uplifting is my bra so I'm going to put that on as a symbol of the kindness I'm asking the Lord to give me. I giggled a little and then prayed as I put on my bra that God would fill me with the kindness He offers me when I sit in His presence. Thank you, Father, for the leading of your Holy Spirit that includes a good dose of humor.

Clothe myself with humility is the next direction. What article of clothing could that possibly be? To put on humility means to choose to set aside all of my own accomplishments as well as any self-elevating thoughts that might cause me to think more highly of myself than I ought. It would mean that I would need to be meek and lowly, with no sense of pride. The Lord has been doing a serious work in me on humility and I praise Him for all His progress. Humility is a hard thing to put on when you've lived a lot of years and learned a lot of things, but it's also hard to take off once the Lord has shown you yourself. The article of clothing that I find the hardest to put on and not so easy to take off is my panty hose so I'm going to put them on as a symbol of the humility I'm asking God to give me. I prayed as I struggled to pull on my panty hose that the Lord would apply as much effort as was needed to keep my humility in place and not let it bag or sag or even run. Thank you, Father, for the practical way you direct my prayer life.

The Lord says I should clothe myself with gentleness next. What article of clothing could that possibly be? To put on gentleness means to choose to be mild, moderate, non-confrontational as I go through my days. It would mean that I would need to be responsive to and flow with the needs of the people around me. The article of clothing that I find most gentle and flowy is my slip so I'm going to put that on as a symbol of the gentleness I'm asking God to give me. I prayed as I adjusted my slip that God would allow me to apply the gentleness He uses when He calls me to account in a sensitive area. Thank you, Lord, for showing me how you bless me out of your infinite storehouses.

Patience is another piece the Lord wants me to put on. What article of clothing could that possibly be? To put on patience means to choose to persevere in the face of opposition, for the long haul. It would mean that I would need to be committed to walk the path the Lord lays out for me, no matter what, until He says I'm done. The article of clothing that I find stays with me on long, hard paths is my shoes so I'm going to put them on as a symbol of the patience I'm asking God to give me. I prayed as I stepped into my pumps that God would fill me with the patience He has been showing me in this new phase of growth. Thank you, God, for continuing to keep me close to your heart.

13 Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
The Lord wants me to put on forgiveness. What article of clothing could that possibly be? To put on forgiveness means to choose to release another person from the debt they owe for sinning against me. It would mean that I would need to give up any "right" to compensation or opportunity for retaliation. This is a big one. True forgiveness cuts or softens the affects of sin and shortcomings, the ugly parts of my life. The article of clothing that I find softens my shortcomings and ugly parts is my dress so I'm going to put it on as a symbol of the forgiveness I'm asking God to give me. I prayed as I pulled my dress over my head and smoothed it into place that the Lord would remind me of His great forgiveness to me and empower me to heed His call to grant the same forgiveness to others. Thank you, Lord, for the way you smooth out my bumps and bulges by your grace.

14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
The final item the Lord encourages His chosen, holy and dearly-loved people to cloth themselves with is love. What article of clothing could that possibly be? To put on love means to choose to view other people the way God sees them and brings all of the attributes together in unity. It would mean that I would need to emphasize love as the overarching tone of my life. The article of clothing that I find joins everything together is the sweater that coordinates my outfit so I'm going to put it on as a symbol of the love I'm asking God to give me. I prayed as I put on my sweater that the Lord would warm me with His love that I might share it with others and thereby warm their souls. Thank you, God, for the love you lavish on me.

It might have sounded far-fetched at the outset, but God has taught me some rich lessons through this passage. He went with me to my appointment and granted all my requests by His grace. Not only that, but I can now list all of the attributes in this passage in order just by going through the articles of clothing. :-) I continue to look to Him to keep me dressed appropriately, as befits a chosen, holy and dearly-loved daughter. He is faithful!

So don't believe the folks who say that old dogs can't learn new tricks. God is The Trainer, Redeemer, Reconciler, Renewer, Rebuilder. He takes broken lives and worn out old believers like me and breathes new life into them. He teaches us more about Himself and how to remain in His presence, day after day, in spite of any distractions the world or the annoyer can throw at us. Hallelujah, praise God for who He is. Glorify His Name and enjoy Him now and forever! Amen